About

Learn about this Site: For starters I would recommend reading the Introduction right here, which describes the purpose of the site and a brief explanation of discipline.

ACCURACY:

While this site includes an accurate general portrait of my experience and marriage, certain details have been changed for the sake of anonymity. I discuss this briefly in The Real Thing.

I am Aron, a happily married man.

I am the head of my home and have been leading my wife since the beginning of our marriage over fifteen years ago. I lead, discipline, and correct her with spankings. We have a great deal of peace and harmony in our home, and raise our five children up in faith and admonition of the Lord.

I am a regular man, and most people who meet us find we have a good example of a marriage and home. They can tell we have love, enjoy each other, and seek to glorify Christ through our family.

I started this website because I want others to benefit from discipline in marriage and from a respect for the man’s authority in general. It works. It helps to make marriage function successfully. I hope you are blessed in marriage by all the material here.

Comment on Spank Your Wife:

You are welcome to add your thoughts or questions to our comments section below the articles. I accept a variety of comments from people who are interested in wife spanking, as well as some who are involved in bdsm, although I edit the ones which are more extreme or immoral. I don’t allow anything with children being involved in adult spankings.

The comments do not necessarily reflect my views or my experience, but are the voice of the reading public. Some I strongly agree with, others I do not. A few comments may include some amount of fantasy. It’s the internet so we don’t know. I also ask that comments are related to the article above it, and seek to add insight, experience, or ask questions about the subject.

I do accept comments from those who disagree with the practice of wife spanking. You’ll find a few already. However, I do not want long debates over it, and the pure hater comments I usually just delete.

Have fun, and glorify God.

Articles by Subject

I decided to put up many of my articles according to their general subject on this page. I thought it would make them easier to find, since there are so many. This is a work in progress.

Website Introduction

Welcome to Spank Your Wife: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/welcomeandleearning/

Spanking Elements

What Does a Spanking Session Look Like: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/what-does-a-discipline-session-look-like/

What to Spank For: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/crime-punishment-what-to-spank-for/

Spanking Instruments: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/spanking-instruments-making-music-together/

Places to Give a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/spankings-happen-here/

The Mindset to Give Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/the-mindset-to-give-discipline/

When She Tries to Get Out of a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/when-she-tries-to-get-out-of-a-spanking/

Finding a Discipline Partner: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/where-can-i-find-a-discipline-partner/

Why Women Love to be Spanked: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/why-women-love-to-be-spanked/

Restoring Her after a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/11/restoring-her-after-a-spanking/

Non-Spanking Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/15/non-spanking-discipline/

Tears During a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/15/tears-during-a-spanking/

Spanking Positions: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/18/well-positioned/

Spanking as Training: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/24/spanking-as-training/

A Spanking Hurts: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/28/hard-and-long/

How Often to Spank: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/01/whats-the-frequency/

Resistance During a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/06/218/

Using Appropriate Severity: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/07/varying-the-heat/

Spanking is for Bottoms: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/10/that-really-hits-the-spot/

Nudity During Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/10/woman-uncovered/

Silent Punishments: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/21/the-silent-treatment/

Leaving the Lady Sore: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/22/in-favor-of-a-sore-backside/

Mouth Soaping as Punishment: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/31/keep-her-mouth-clean/

Saying “Thank You” After Being Spanked: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/05/thank-you-for-the-spanking-sir/

Reinforcing Authority During Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/09/reinforcing-authority-during-discipline/

Reinforcing Love During Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/19/reinforcing-love-during-discipline/

Standing Her in the Corner: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/21/on-standing-her-in-the-corner/

When She Wants to Get Punished: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/24/when-she-wants-to-get-punished/

Calling Him Sir: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/26/calling-him-sir/

What Makes an Effective Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/15/what-makes-an-effective-spanking/

Number of Strokes: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/25/im-counting-on-you/

Discipline Practices I Do Not Use: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/12/discipline-practices-i-do-not-use-and-ones-i-discourage/

Discipline and Forgiveness: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/26/discipline-and-forgiveness/

The Wait Before the Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/29/it-was-worth-the-wait/

Intensive Training Sessions: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/09/09/high-gear-and-intensive-training/

More Spanking Locations (Travel Time): https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/09/15/spankings-happen-here-part-2-on-the-road-again/

Experiencing Real Remorse: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/09/26/experiencing-real-remorse/

Preparing to Give a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/10/03/preparing-to-give-a-spanking/

Mouth Soaping Instructions: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/21/mouth-soaping/

Do You Have a Written Contract?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/02/do-you-have-a-written-contract/

How to Not Go Overboard: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/08/how-to-not-go-overboard/

The Variety in Wife Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/02/13/loving-the-variety/

The Value of Consistency: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/02/20/the-mighty-consistency/

Keep Your Woman Bare: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/03/05/keeping-her-bare/

Discipline Practices I do NOT Use [Part 2]: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/03/19/dd-practices-i-do-not-use-part-2/

Consent in a Spanking Marriage: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/09/consent-in-a-spanking-marriage/

Answering Men’s Questions: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/23/what-can-a-man-do/

A Woman’s Fears about Spanking and Submission: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/05/14/the-answer-to-fears/

What a Wife Needs After She is Spanked: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/05/28/what-a-woman-needs-after-she-is-spanked/

Humbling a Rebellious Wife: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/06/25/humbling-a-rebellious-woman/

Should you Tie Her Up?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/07/09/the-use-of-restraints/

Meet Women Mentors for Women: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/07/20/wives-teaching-wives/

Can a Wife be Too Good to be Spanked? https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/07/30/too-good-to-be-spanked/

Spanking Puts Bad Habits into the Past: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/08/13/bad-habits-spanking-puts-in-the-past/

How Spanking Cleanses a Woman: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/09/10/how-spanking-cleanses-a-woman/

On Public Spankings: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/10/08/that-group-thing/

Kneeling in Marriage: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/10/22/kneeling-in-marriage/

What’s a Light Spanking Good For?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/11/05/mr-light-hand/

When to Pause or End Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/11/26/when-to-pause-or-end-spanking/

The Warm-Up Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/12/31/a-note-on-the-warm-up-spanking/

A Proper Thrashing: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/02/10/a-proper-thrashing/

Asking for a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/03/17/i-think-i-need-a-spanking-sir/

Husbands Learn from Other Husbands: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/04/29/learn-from-experienced-spanking-husbands/

Does Spanking Keep us from Being Friends?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/05/27/does-spanking-interfere-with-our-laughter-and-fun/

Discipline when Children are in the Home: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/09/02/continuing-discipline-when-children-are-in-the-home/

Trust: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/08/12/trust/

Spanking is Not a Lifestyle: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/07/29/spanking-is-not-a-lifestyle/

Repeat Spankings: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/07/15/repeat-spankings/

Fear in Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/06/10/fear-in-spanking/

Leadership and Submission:

What Men Need to Learn: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/17/what-men-need-to-learn/

Leadership Like Christ: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/05/leadership-like-christ/

Realizing Your Authority: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/12/realizing-your-authority/

Submission of the Bride: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/10/17/submission-of-the-bride/

Practical Submission: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/07/practical-submission/

There is No Such Thing as a Dom: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/21/there-is-no-such-thing-as-a-dom/

Helping a Wife See Her Responsibility: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/05/helping-a-wife-see-her-responsibility/

Men Afraid to Give a Spanking that Hurts: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/17/men-afraid-to-give-a-spanking-that-hurts/

When Can a Woman Say No to Her Husband?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/06/11/when-can-a-woman-say-no-to-her-husband/

How Spanking Makes Men Better Leaders: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/08/27/how-spanking-makes-men-better-leaders/

A Young Wife Learn to Accept Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/12/03/a-young-wife-learns-to-accept-discipline/

Spanking and Empowerment: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/12/17/does-spanking-empower-a-wife/

Verbal Instructions and Lecturing:

A Script of a Spanking Lecture: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/what-does-a-spanking-sound-like/

Words are More Effective During a Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/04/speak-to-her-soul/

Leading Her with Words: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/03/leading-her-with-words/

The Verbal Correction: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/02/06/the-verbal-correction/

Use of the Warning: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/16/use-of-the-warning/

What a Wife should Affirm during Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/03/31/what-a-woman-should-affirm-during-discipline/

Introduce Discipline to Your Marriage:

How to Introduce Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/how-to-introduce-spanking-in-your-marriage/

Asking Your Man to Spank You: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/16/asking-your-man-to-spank-you/

If You Want this For Your Marriage: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/22/if-you-want-this-for-your-marriage/

Starting Discipline in the Home: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/25/starting-discipline-in-the-home/

A Wife’s First Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/07/a-wifes-first-spanking/

Why I Chose Spanking for My Marriage: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/31/why-i-chose-spanking-for-my-marriage/

Facing Your First Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/15/facing-your-first-spanking/

Testimony about Discipline Improving a Marriage: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/11/discipline-turns-around-a-marriage/

Getting Started: Three Early Rules: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/27/getting-started-three-early-rules/

Steps in Turning a Marriage Around: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/29/steps-in-turning-a-marriage-around/

A Place for Singles: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/01/your-place-for-singles/

That Tender Early Period: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/01/27/that-tender-early-period/

Getting Past Early Resistance: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/02/18/making-it-past-early-resistance/

A Wife Gets Her First Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/07/01/a-wife-and-the-new-world-of-spanking/

A Beginner’s Guide: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/08/26/a-beginners-guide/

Descriptions of a Discipline Session:

Description of Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/16/description-of-a-discipline-session/

A Discipline for Arguing: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/13/description-of-discipline-for-arguing/

A Discipline for Lateness: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/19/description-of-discipline-for-lateness/

A Paddle Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/10/24/description-of-a-paddle-discipline/

A Discipline for Bad Mouth: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/09/24/description-of-a-discipline-for-bad-mouth/

Benefits of Spanking your Wife:

Why Use Discipline: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/whyusediscipline/

How it Helps You Every Day: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/18/how-it-helps-you-everyday/

Why Women Love to Get Spanked: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/08/why-women-love-to-be-spanked/

Make Her a Better Woman: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/01/make-her-a-better-woman/

It’s a Wonderful Life: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/10/its-a-wonderful-life/

Spanking vs. Pacifist Punishment: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/14/spanking-vs-pacifist-punishment/

Sex in Marriage and Discipline:

Sex in Submission (Part 1 of 2): https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/30/sex-in-submission-part-1-of-2/

Sex in Submission (Part 2 of 2): https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/31/sex-in-submission-part-2-of-2/

Pleasuring Her Man After the Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/29/pleasuring-her-man-after-the-spanking/

The Duty of the Marriage Bed: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/08/the-duty-of-the-marriage-bed/

Oral Training for Your Wife: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/10/09/oral-training-for-your-wife/

Commands in Sexual Submission: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/26/commands-in-sexual-submission/

Sex as Dominance: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/04/15/sex-as-dominance/

Instrument Highlight:

The Belt: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/11/the-belt/

The Paddle: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/08/04/the-paddle/

The Joy of Hand Spanking: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/09/19/the-joy-of-hand-spanking/

The Hairbrush: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/10/31/the-hairbrush/

The Loop: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/16/i-hate-that-thing-the-loop/

The Cane: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/30/no-not-the-cane/

The Riding Crop: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/11/19/the-crop-its-for-the-horses/

Polls:

Spanking Polls for Readers: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/11/25/spanking-polls-for-readers/

When do You Spank: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/13/readers-poll-when-do-you-spank/

How Does Being Spanked Affect You: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/04/20/readers-poll-how-does-being-spanked-affect-you/

Do You Know Someone Who Spanks: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/10/30/spanking-poll-who-do-you-know-who-spanks/

What’s the Most Common Infraction: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/05/13/poll-whats-the-most-common-infraction/

Spanking and Culture:

Why They Hate You: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/01/22/why-they-hate-you/

Societal Illusions: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/04/28/your-illusion/

Tenderbutts and DD: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/09/07/tenderbutts-and-domestic-discipline/

Should I Tell Someone We Spank: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/06/15/should-i-tell-someone-we-spank/

Make Spanking Normal Again: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/05/17/make-spanking-normal-again/

Common Attacks against Spanking Answered: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/18/spanking-is-bad-mkay/

Does Work Outside the Home Make Submission More Difficult: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/12/10/does-work-outside-the-home-make-submission-more-difficult/

You Are a Natural Woman: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/02/26/feel-like-a-natural-woman/

Spanking Readers Across the Globe: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/06/22/the-swat-heard-round-the-world/

MGTOW: Should men go their own way?: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/03/03/a-response-to-mgtow-fears/

Being a Natural Woman: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/06/24/feel-like-a-natural-woman-part-2/

Traditional Marriage and Wife Spanking in India: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2022/09/16/traditional-marriage-and-wife-spanking-in-india/

Spanking and Faith

Advice from a Pastor: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2021/03/27/the-spanking-pastor/

Common Christian Attacks Answered: https://spankingyourwife.wordpress.com/2020/07/18/jesus-sat-spanking-is-bad-mkay-part-2-of-2/

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